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Katrina Biggs's avatar

What the hell! I saw the picture of that AGP guy, Phil Illy, at the Genspect conference, and I had a visceral feeling of distaste at it, because men displaying their fetishes in public is extremely distasteful. There's a good reason we feel that way - I say "we", because I'm sure others felt that way, too - because our gut tells us that the public display we see is just the tip of the iceberg of more distasteful private behaviours, and/or perversions. I know that clever rationalisations get employed to make us question that and convince us we're wrong, often against our better judgement, and they do work quite a lot, as we've seen from women who rush to defend AGPs. I don't give a flying eff about feeling compelled to be kind to transpeople, they can form their own 'kindness clubs'. Besides, they can suck up too much of one's oxygen. I won't go out of my way to be vicious to a transperson if they not causing any harm, but their wellbeing is not where I focus my energy, especially as their wants can clash with women's needs. My advocacy centres around what works best for women as a group. James Lindsay's character has always seemed a bit dodgy to me, and he certainly threw off any pretence at civility during this exchange. And Helen Pluckrose has always seemed a bit desperate to be onside with men, imo. I make these weighty condemnations from the position of only having spent a small amount of time listening to them :-)

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Operator J's avatar

I liked this post, Edie. We need to document what is happening and why. The deceit and gas lighting need to be exposed. Well done and well said.

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